





Sexually transmissible infections (STIs) are also known as sexually transmitted diseases or STDs. STIs are infections you can get if you have unprotected vaginal, oral or anal sex or skin on skin contact with someone. STIs are serious and may not go away by themselves. It is important to be tested and, if necessary, treated. You usually can’t tell by looking if someone has an STI. It’s not who you are, but what you do that puts you at risk of getting an STI.
The most common STIs in New Zealand are chlamydia, gonorrhoea, genital warts, crabs and genital herpes. Some STIs have no symptoms and you may not know that you have an STI. Less common, but increasing, is HIV which causes AIDS.
There are ways to protect yourself and your partner against STIs.
Male and female condoms offer the best protection against STIs. They must be used correctly and used every time you have sex.
Condoms do protect you. Some people say it isn’t worth using condoms because they have holes big enough for viruses to get through. This is not true. Bacteria and viruses such as HIV cannot pass through an undamaged condom. Electronically tested condoms have been checked for holes. This is written on the packaging of reliable brands.
Condoms are know to greatly reduce the risk of catching other STIs such as chlamydia and gonorrhoea. Condoms also reduce the risk of herpes and wart virus infection, but sometimes skin not covered by the condom can be infected with the viruses.
Oral dams are sheets of latex. They act as a barrier between the vulva or anus and the mouth. They are thin enough to transmit heat and sensation but also are a barrier against infections from vaginal or anal secretions. If you don’t have an oral dam you can use a condom cut open lengthways.
Some STIs have symptoms such as discharge from the vagina or penis, lower abdomen pain, sore testicles, but often there are no signs at all. Many people will be infected with an STI without knowing it. You can’t tell if someone has an STI by looking at them.
You may want to get tested for a range of different reasons:
The doctor or nurse will ask a few questions so they know what tests you’ll need.
It is really important to be honest when answering questions about your sexual health and history. They are not being nosy or judging you. They are just trying to get information to give you the best health care possible. Remember, they’ve heard it all before.
They’ll probably ask:
Don't urinate (pee) for two hours before you go for a test. There are a few things the doctor or nurse may check for. They might:
If you have given oral sex (blow jobs to a guy), you should also think about throat swabs. If you have received during anal sex, you should think about anal swabs too.
In women who have had vaginal sex with a man, STI testing will usually include taking samples of secretions from high inside the vagina. The doctor or nurse will do this using a swab which looks like a long cotton bud. Testing may include some or all of the following:
Most STIs are easily cured. Lots of STIs are treated with antibiotics. Others need creams and other tablets. Some STIs remain in a person’s system for a long time or forever, and their symptoms are managed e.g. Herpes. HIV, the virus that leads to AIDS, cannot be cured. The disease can be controlled by medication. There is currently no cure or immunisation available for HIV and AIDS.