I am attracted to somebody the same sex as myself. We fooled around / had sex / kissed / had a threesome. I fantasise about him / her. Am I gay?

What you are feeling is totally normal and lots of people question their sexual orientation at different times. Relax and go with what you are feeling. Spend some quality time with people you really like.

Just because you are attracted to someone doesn’t mean you are ready for a sexual relationship. You are trying to get your head around your sexual identity. In any relationship touching often comes after you really feel comfortable with someone. If you are attracted to someone, spend some time getting to know them and see what happens.