A couple of weeks ago my best friend slept over at my house. During the night we gave each other blow jobs. I don’t think I’m gay, but does this mean I am?

No, sexual experiences with others of the same sex will not mean you are gay or cause you to be gay. You might be, but this is not how you know for sure.

Being gay is about being attracted to people of the same sex as yourself emotionally, sexually and physically.

It can be a confusing time trying to work out your sexual orientation. It is common for many people to question this at some stage in their life. You might want to seek support for yourself from someone you trust. You could ask a friend/partner, or you could seek support from a group or agency.