My partner wants to have a threesome, but I’m not sure if I want to. I’m really scared that my partner will leave me if I say no. What can I do?

It is important in any relationship that both partners feel comfortable enough to be honest about what they like and don’t like and that this is respected by the other person.

If you are either unsure, or sure that you don’t want to, that’s fine. It is not a good idea to do something purely to try and please your partner, especially if it makes you uncomfortable. Talk with your partner about this. If your partner leaves over this, then you might want to consider how much respect your partner has for your boundaries.

It is important for every individual to be able to be honest and open about their boundaries in any intimate relationship.