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When should I first have sex?

Some people find that when they had sex for the first time, it wasn't all that it was cracked up to be. They feel let down - they'd expected it to be much better than it was. That may be because it was the wrong place, the wrong time, or the wrong person. Or it may have been because they didn't take the time to find out what turns them and their partner on.

There are a lot of things you can do to show your feelings for each other. You can enjoy being with someone, kissing, cuddling, and just having fun. As you get to know each other, you may touch, kiss and explore each other's bodies. You can have a very sexual relationship, without intercourse.