How will I know if I’m ready?

My mates are all doing it ......aren’t they?

I’m getting so much pressure

I’m scared

I’m horny!

I’m curious. What do they look like close up? How does it feel?

Sex is all around you. It might look glamorous and exciting. It might seem pretty scary.

Despite what your mates might be saying not everyone is doing it. In New Zealand the average age when people first have sex is 16 to 17 years but you’re not unusual if you wait until you’re older. Some people wait until they are married. It’s your choice. It’s your body.

People have sex for lots of different reasons

Why would you want to have sex?

Having sex is an important decision, it’s a big step, so only make that decision when you’re ready.